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Since then, I have used nozzles that are longer, slender, and made of smooth PVC or rubber that clean deeper.
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Unlike the human vagina, the human anus does not self-lubricate, which in general we should all probably be thankful for. I wanted to be unable to sit afterward. I discovered this sensation through toy play. This way you can avoid E. It is butt sex, after all, and if you do it enough, you are at some point going to encounter traces of that other thing the ass does. But if you can, limit yourself to once a day and only days per week.